Your
True “Self”
Within
the sanctity of your inner being, is your true self, a part that remains
unseen.
Quietness,
surrounded by joy and peace, filled with calmness, hidden until you seek.
It's
uncluttered by your future or your past, only the "now, "the"
present," is what lasts.
Your
true self is eternal and must grow to new heights, your soul already knows.
For
you to reach this sacred state of mind, release ego and the poisons that it
finds.
Then
surrender; trust in what you truly feel, but be aware of what is and isn't
real.
Integrity
will guide you on your quest; let truth prevail to help you act your best.
If
you can overcome the need to prove or win, then you will find your true self
deep within.
And
when united with your inner self, you will find there is no greater wealth.
Eternity
is real and so very divine, once your true self reveals itself to shine!
~Margaret
I Jang
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Going beyond
horoscopes, Human Design posits that everyone is born with individuality as
unique as a fingerprint.
The detailed
personality readings Human Design provides empower people to make decisions…
… choose
professions…
… and create
relationships with ease and success because they are no longer struggling
against innate strengths and weaknesses.
They are instead
tapping into their personal power and destiny.
Understanding
these readings allows people to align their actions with their inherent, truest
self.
Chetan Parkyn,
the foremost international practitioner of Human Design, now offers readers the
tools to do their own readings (using a
downloadable program),
to map the life charts of friends and family, and even to explore the complete
life charts of a variety of public figures.
Simple,
accurate, and wonderfully detailed, Human Design unlocks human potential by
answering the age-old question,
“Who am I”
Human
Design is ripe for these changing times, encouraging us to meet ourselves head
on and be responsible for who we are.
It
is a system that takes the torch from the hand of astrology and carries it to
the next level, providing both an accurate guide for life and a
self-assessment device.
Human
Design is astrology's natural successor, something gold making way for something
new.
No
longer will it be enough for human curiosity to simply ask of others:
"What
is your sign?"
You will want and need to know
more.
For
example, if you were born under the sign of Libra, you'll already know how different
you are from fellow Librans, and yet you have to read the same forecasts.
Without
an in-depth astrological reading, you are collectively defined with a one size
fits all label.
But
Human Design, through this book, unveils and celebrates your unique
individuality.
With
that in mind, perhaps a better opening question for future social introductions
could be…
"Forget your sign; what's your
design?"
So, how does it work?
Human Design draws from four ancient wisdom
traditions to become a system in its own right that provides a technical looking
design of the person you were born to be.
It uses data to determine your exact
placement in time and space relative to the solar system and star fields
around you at the precise moment of birth.
But whereas in astrology the sky is
divided into twelve compartments (the signs of the zodiac), Human Design
divides it into sixty four.
This correlates
to two things:
*first, the sixty four codons of the
human genetic code
*second, the sixty-four hexagrams of the
I Ching, a tool used by the Chinese to better understand human nature.
Each
one of these sixty four compartments carries a unique meaning, allowing us to
see, in depth, which characteristics make up our being.
We
are all, in effect, human cells interacting within one giant energy vessel,
the Universe, impacted by what is called a neutrino stream.
Neutrinos
are minute particles that travel near the speed of light, passing through
everything.
If
we, as humans, live in an atmosphere of air, the Universe lives in an atmosphere
of neutrinos.
These
are the very emissions of all the stars in the sky, and our bodies are being
bombarded by trillions of them every second of the day.
Because
neutrinos have mass, they exchange information with everything they pass
through, including us.
So,
at the moment of birth, we are imprinted with neutrino information, which
leaves a genetic thumbprint, determining the nature we will carry throughout
life.
Imagine
the sky above us divided into sixty four equal compartments.
Within
each of these compartments there are star fields "breathing out"
neutrinos, trillions at a time, in all directions.
These
neutrinos pass through the planets, exchanging information as they go.
When
those same neutrinos pass through us at the exact time of our birth, they leave
that planetary flavored information embedded within us.
It's
as if they gently "bump" our human vehicle as we enter the world,
leaving an indelible impression on our beings and shaping how we are going to
interact in life.
In
1987, when Human Design was first developed, neutrinos were merely a theory.
But
proof arrived in the late 1990s when scientists in Japan and Canada established
that neutrino particles change “flavors” and, therefore, must have mass.
This
discovery, it was said, explained the "missing mass" of the Universe.
In these rapidly changing times, science
is uncovering more and more about the mysteries of life.
Human Design is where science and
spirituality come together like never before to inform you about the essence
of your life.
It provides a way of reading your
genetic neutrino imprint, of seeing your own design.
When
people first lay eyes on a Human Design life chart, it provokes a carbon copy
reaction:
a
puzzled frown forms across the brow and a bewildered voice asks:
"What-that's
me?"
Yes,
that's you, on the inside, the mechanics of your true nature laid bare on the
page.
All
those shapes, colors, lines, symbols, and numbers denote the person you were
designed to be.
You
are looking at the very core of your being -what makes you tick, what makes you
function.
The
software you downloaded creates the life chart based on two factors: the
first, the exact time, date, and place of your birth; and the second, a
separate time, which it calculates, from a moment three months before
birth the instant when the neocortex in the front lobe of the brain turns on
and when the spirit is said to enter the body.
It's
at this time that the soul "tunes in" to the physical vehicle it's
been handed in life.
A
natal astrological calculation is made based on the time and place of your birth
and the planetary influences.
Then
this calculation is computed and combined with three other ancient wisdoms:
the chakra system, the I Ching, and the Kabbalah.
All
this information combines to create a life chart.
One
initial question I'm often asked is
"Does
my design ever change?"
The
truth of the matter is that during the course of your life you will be exposed
to, and perhaps conditioned by, almost every facet and nuance of the different
designs of other people.
But
YOUR design is consistent and forever remains your true foundation.
It
is unique and can always be relied on.
There
is no need to be anyone other than who you are, because you have everything you
need within your design to live a complete and fulfilling life.
This
understanding should remove all thoughts of wanting to change something about
yourself or trying to be like someone else.
There
is no "good" or "bad" design, no "better" or
"worse."
There
is only authenticity.
Once
you accept that and start to be yourself, everything around you starts to
become clear.
The beauty of what lies within will
become clear as we examine you, stage by stage, chapter by chapter, identifying
the different ingredients that fuse to create the whole person.
So, in order to follow this book, keep
your life chart in your hand or posted on a computer screen.
I'll be the driver, taking you on a
journey.
You keep your eyes on the map,
because each shape, color, channel, or number tells you so much about your
inside story.
Thaddeas Acree THE GENERATOR
"Listen to Your
Gut!”
A Generator has a defined Sacral, but
neither this center nor any of the other motor centers…Heart, Emotions, and
Root… are connected to the Throat by an active channel.
You
are a work horse with endless life force energy radiating outward but don't
find it that easy to make things happen.
Some
effort is required before you get into your full stride and reach your
potential.
You
are designed not to initiate but to wait.
Your
motto is: "Wait, respond, then get going!"
Being
a Generator makes you relatively one paced but highly effective, and your
momentum is a joy to watch because it is Sacral powered, therefore remarkably
enduring.
You
are the Duracell or Energizer battery that keeps on going and going when others
are fading.
Your
challenge is to know how and where to best apply this enormous energy.
Waiting
for the right projects, opportunities, and people and honoring your gut
response are your keys to finding fulfillment.
When
you chase or initiate without waiting, life can go wrong.
It's
when you attract opportunity or respond after exercising patience that
things tend to work out.
We
live in a time when everyone wants to act now, get going, waste no time,
achieve ASAP.
This
expectation may taunt you into getting a move on, but don't be misled into
thinking you must launch great initiatives.
You
first need the energy to generate within you; only then is it capable and
effective.
So
sit down, be patient, and master the art of waiting to respond.
View
yourself as a magnet and let people and openings seek you out.
And
they will. It is an energetic law of life that magnets attract.
So
if you are wailing something like, "Why does everything I start or chase
turn out bad? " or " Why can he make those things happen but I
can't?" my answer would be: "Because you haven't learned to wait and
attract."
Don't
initiate. Wait.
Your
mistaken self-perception is that you have so much energy that you can
automatically make things happen.
That's
probably fueled by people describing you as purposeful and dedicated.
You
walk into the workplace and your life-force energy radiates, lifting everyone
else.
Here
comes the real worker, the real juice -the Generator.
You
can save the day -and you even believe this yourself.
Whether
it feels right or not, you have a tendency to wade in and answer the call.
Hours
later, you'll be head down, hard at work, and look up to find everyone has gone
back to sleep.
Then
you'll have a quiet word with yourself and ask:"Why does it always fall to
me? Why did I ever get involved?"
What
you must realize is that the only things that prove fulfilling are those that
duly arrive after you have exercised patience openings or possibilities that
arrive at your door or make your phone ring.
Then
what's crucial is your response.
This
response is governed by a built-in guidance system, the Sacral gut response,
signaling who and what warrants your commitment.
This
is the core secret of your inner being, one that opens the doorway to what's
right for you.
You'll
recognize this gut sensation in the form of an involuntary reflex or sound, or
the rising or contracting of energy, pulling you to or pushing you away from
something.
The
sound is that familiar "uh-huh" which says "yes" or that
"uh-uh" that says “no.”
You
need to attune to this sensation because it is, quite literally, your built-in
indicator.
You'll sense your gut in response to
questions that people ask of you: "Can I ask for your help?"
"Do you want to go on a date?"
or “Are you hungry?"
But it also kicks in with much more
profound questions that life asks.
Test yourself the next time someone asks
you something, but be aware that you might be waiting for an instantaneous gut
response and, half a second later, the Mind will get involved.
Don't allow it to distract you.
That's not where your answer lies.
Listen to your gut.
Also,
observe inner musings that don't require a direct question.
If
you are sitting in a restaurant, looking at a menu, going through the entree
choices, your "uh-huh" or "uh-uh" will kick in.
Listen
to your gut.
Your process is played out thus: wait for what life offers,
listen to your gut response, then get going.
~
Gayle is a Generator and has learned more and more to tune in
to ~ her gut response.
She
was once being pursued by four potential suitors and
was torn about to whom she should commit.
After
a Human Design
reading, she needed to distance herself from the fog
of her fears and presumptions, none of which played a part in
a natural gut response.
She
stood in her bedroom, looked in the mirror, and created a yes/no question
for her gut to answer.
One
by
one, she named the four men. "Should I go out with
Doug?" She felt that "uh-uh" for no.
"Should
I go out with Marshall?" Again, she felt "uh-uh."
"Should
I go out with Michel? "Once more, "uh uh."
Finally,
she came to Nick and felt a clear "uh-huh."
There
was her "yes" answer.
Somewhere
in
her being, Nick resonated with her, and this was her clear
guidance to give him a chance.
The
mistake Generators can make is to think too much, allowing the Mind to override
the Sacral.
When
this fog blurs the gut response, you find yourself committing to all kinds of
wrong people and wrong pursuits.
And
then, the trouble for the Sacral is that once it is committed, it has to follow
through and complete the experience, however inappropriate or ill-fitting.
Quitting
is a poor option -and this is one thing that requires understanding because
once your energetic momentum gets going, it's engaged.
Your
nature builds up such a head of steam by waiting and waiting that it doesn't
know how to stop the momentum.
It's
like asking a thundering express train to stop at a moment's notice.
As
a non Generator, you might see people running toward disaster but you'll be
powerless to stop them.
You
must wait for them to return to their senses in their own time exhausted,
unfulfilled, and ready to try again.
Generators must be wary of other people
seeking to harness their energy, to take advantage of them.
A lot of them are found in the service
industry, on the factory floor, or as assistants, secretaries, and personal
trainers, with a treadmill-like momentum that keeps things ticking like
clockwork.
That's because Generators provide the
juice for most things.
If
you are a Generator, you represent 37percent of the world's population and
appear to be someone with enough power to raise the dead.
Your
energy turns heads when you enter a room.
You're
viewed as capable and unflagging.
I
bet you're someone who rolls out of bed, cooks breakfast, drops the kids off at
school, goes to work, gives your all, fixes other people's stuff, works out at
lunchtime, impresses the boss some more in the afternoon, goes home, does the
laundry, fixes the dinner, bathes the children, puts them to bed, then turns
to your partner and collapses in a heap.
No
one, except other Generator types, can hope to keep up with you.
The
problem is that you can arrive at the end of your days feeling you've
accomplished a lot but still feeling unfulfilled.
That's
because, in large part, you've just been going through the motions.
Life
is not just about ticking boxes and keeping others happy.
Herein
lies the key to a Generator design: only engage with people and
activities that resonate; otherwise, you'll discover the flip side to your
type and become the pure couch potato who has given up, exhausted with life and
fed up trying.
Or
you can become someone who is wiped out, prone on your bed, waiting for energy
to be regenerated.
I
would also advise everyone not to throw too much, all at once, at a Generator.
However
capable and energetic they seem, there's only so much responding they can do.
You'll
know they've reached their limit when their hands go up and they say:
"Enough!"
Or
when, feeling overwhelmed, they simply ask for space.
As
parents of Generator children, your task is to clue them into their gut
response if you want them and you to avoid tears and frustration.
There
is no point in handing a child a trumpet and expecting him or her to master it
if it doesn't resonate with the child.
It's
a waste of time for dads to coach their boys in baseball or football if this
fails to excite.
Parents
need to understand the distinction between their expectations for their children
and what actually resonates with those children.
Likewise in relationships, it is asking
for trouble to declare to your Generator lover that you've decided what you're
doing for the weekend and drag your partner off to the beach for a picnic
without first sounding out his or her gut response.
Partners should learn to ask Generators
questions that start with queries such as "Would you like to do this
today?" or "Do you think it's a good idea if we ... ?"
Don't worry about being "man
enough" and taking control; honor the Generator nature, not the ego.
These people require consultation if
your relationship is to work. Over the years, I've met thousands of Generators
and have tried to point out what makes them tick.
Some of them get it straightaway, but
far too many have fallen prey to conditioning and are slogging away as work
horses in situations where their unstinting efforts are taken for granted.
It is indisputable that wrong people and
projects will fly high because of a Generator's input, but that's not the point
to their life.
They need to find where their amazing
source of energy is best directed and appreciated.
Geraldine
is a hardworking mother with three delightful but extremely demanding
children.
She
saw it as her duty to fulfill any demands they asked of her at
anytime.
However,
despite
the pleasure she derived from this, she was exhausted and more
than a little frustrated that she rarely had the time and
energy for anything else.
In
a classic
Generator situation, the attention and demands of others were
depleting her.
Since
she could not afford a nanny, there seemed no solution and she
gradually found herself getting more and more worn out.
At
my reading for Geraldine, she had no idea she had such a
bountiful Sacral.
She
just assumed she was being run ragged and operated on auto pilot.
When
she
learned that she had an infallible built in indicator sys tem capable
of letting her know which activities worked best for her, she
immediately began changing the way she lived.
She
actually saw the importance of educating her children to approach
her in a different way.
Instead
or I want" demands, she coached the children to ask questions
that required a yes/no response.
She
was savvy enough to disguise this shift into a playful set of
new rules.
To
her delight, the questions elicited a reliable gut response
and now she only commits to the activities that resonate.
This,
in turn, has empowered the children to be more resourceful, and they're
delighted to see Mom having more satisfaction and energy in her life.
I
tell all Generators to acknowledge the blessing they are.
As
a Generator, you may well be harboring fears that you'll miss the boat if you
don't act now or that everything will go wrong if you don't jump in and seize
control.
But
trust your nature. Trust the person you were born to be and wait to respond.
~ Chetan Parkyn - Human
Design: Discover the
Person You Were Born to Be.
THE
SACRAL AUTHORITY
"Follow
Your Gut.”
This is your strategy if the Sacral is
defined and the Emotions are undefined.
Your
correct decision-making process is about "following your gut" and
trusting it.
Am
I seriously telling you that your best decisions in life will stem from that
sensation in the lower belly?
Yes,
I am. Indeed, you were born with a natural inclination to follow the gut, but
this was quickly drummed out of you by well… meaning parents and teachers who
provided the conditioning to use the Mind instead.
The
most important thing for anyone with Sacral Authority to appreciate is that
this inner guidance system is only ever effective when in response.
It
is not proactive; it is responsive.
Thus,
your authority is designed to wait until there is a clear response that speaks
from the lower belly with an "uh-huh" for "yes" and
"uh-uh" for "no," or that sensation of being drawn toward
or repelled by something.
If
there is no response, this in itself implies a lack of interest at the time.
This
authority needs to be applied to everything in life. It is not healthy for you
to commit to, or engage in, anything without first waiting and then receiving
a gut response in agreement.
You've
got to be careful not to be tempted into making decisions just because of
conditioning or the people around you.
An
emotional friend with a contagious excitement could make an idea sound like the
best thing since sliced bread; an iron… willed colleague could make a persuasive
argument to commit your vast life… force energy to an important project.
At
such times, your authority demands that you sit and wait for your gut response
to make its voice known.
Because,
as we already know, once you commit, there is no stopping you being carried
onward by the Sacral's relentless momentum.
Learning
to get out of the head and into the gut is how you'll learn to make wiser
decisions.
Many
people with a defined Sacral struggle to differentiate between gut response and
emotional reaction.
A
response is patient, relaxed, and measured, whereas a reaction is an
unconscious reflex and hasty.
With
practice, you'll learn to notice the difference and hone this authoritative
skill within you.
With
that in mind, I will now give you something to ponder.
Consider
a time in your life when you made an important decision that turned out to be
one you regretted, be that a decision to get married or let someone go, sell
your house or buy a car, move to another country or move down the street.
Now
recall how you made that decision. Were you over… analyzing and thinking
too much?
Did
the influence of another person convince you in some way? Were you feeling
obliged to commit?
Rewind
and review it all. Look at what unfolded when you made that poor decision.
Now
consider an important decision where everything turned out favorably and you
felt an inner harmony.
How
did you make that decision?
Did
you, perhaps, wait, trust your gut, and then go for it?
Your golden key to making correct and
consistently better decisions lies in identifying the answers to these
questions.
One Important Note: When you have
both the Spleen and Sacral defined, your gut response becomes greatly enhanced
by the Spleen senses.
This means that your gut is fast-tracked
into an instantaneous split-second response.
~ Chetan Parkyn - Human
Design: Discover the
Person You Were Born to Be.
34 Channel of
Power 57 From the Sacral to
the Spleen
This channel is all
about embracing the power of now… and acting on it.
You are a true force
with the potential for greatness… and the power to bring about change.
The connection between
the raw energy of the Sacral and the survival instincts of the Spleen mean you
are a born powerhouse with an empowering intuition.
When responding correctly to your
senses, you are awesome in your swift and decisive actions.
No one is better at getting things done
in a crisis than the 34 - 57, because the spontaneity of the Spleen's senses
means you're jumping into action in an instant to save the day, galvanizing
everyone else's activities as you go.
It is a power drawn to
taking action to help others in distress with senses as alert as those of a
superhero.
Your intuition responds
to cries for help and wades into action in the interests of the survival of
yourself and everyone else.
It is a power capable
of resurrecting the lives of anyone living in a disempowered way, down on
their knees.
You can also give
systems, situations, and companies the kiss of life if the purpose resonates
with you.
If you start a new job
at 9A.M., you'll be starting the revolution by 9:05, as you hit your stride.
The
unique combination of mighty energy and gentle intuition means you wield your
powerful hand in a velvet glove.
Your
energy gets everyone upstanding and moving toward the achievement of great
things, propelled by your voice yelling: "Go, go, go! Now, now, now!"
You
already know that your considerable abilities and energy are sought out by
others, but realize the need for discretion in how to use them.
Bringing
healing and well… being into the lives of those around you can be a naturally
wonderful sensation, but remember to look after your own needs first!
Former British prime minister… Margaret
Thatcher has this channel, and look at the power she wielded to bring about the
"Thatcher revolution."
Whatever you think of her decisions, the
"Iron Maiden" felt Britain had its nose in the mud when she took
power in 1979 and wanted it back on its feet.
So she set about making it happen, with
an eye on bettering its future.
This is a natural response of the 34-57,
taking action for the long term good that might even become a lasting legacy.
~ Chetan Parkyn - Human Design: Discover the Person You Were
Born to Be.
3 Channel of
Mutation 60 From the Sacral to
the Root
You
might already be aware of how dramatically events can change around you.
Join
the 3 and the 60 and it becomes symbolic, because your life is always doing a
360 degree circle.
Partners
who travel with you in life must be adaptable and prepare for an erratic but
rewarding experience of change and growth.
Expect
the unexpected.
Everyone I know with this channel has a
life made up of a sequence of quantum leaps from one place to the next, forever
changing direction and relying on nothing more than blind faith and an
affirmative gut response from the Sacral.
The
3 - 60 is one of three "format channels."
A
format channel has an overriding impact on your entire design, dictating how
your life will be lived out, regardless of whatever else is going on in your
life chart.
With
the 3 - 60, your Human Design has the ingrained motto "Dramatic changes
and transformations equal personal growth."
Your
process is bringing about renewal, but don't expect a fanfare everywhere you go
because not everyone welcomes upheaval.
Have
you ever watched moving events lit by an erratic strobe light?
That
is similar to the way in which you operate: the light hits you and everything
is seen clearly.
But
then the light darts away, leaving you in darkness.
When
it hits you again, everything has changed and you and everything around you are
moving in a new direction.
The strobe light's randomness also
matches the cosmic timing that governs your life, pulsing on and off in an
irregular pattern.
Likewise, dramatic change has no sense
of timing.
Things happen when they are meant to
happen and this is a natural law that all 3 - 60s must learn to accept.
This in itself can be limiting,
especially if you've set something in motion and things stall.
This can induce a melancholy that is
hard to shake.
At such times, your best allies are
music and nature.
The acoustic quality of this channel
needs to tune in to sounds that match your mood.
Then exercise patience.
If life is teaching you anything, it's
that things don't remain stuck for long.
Trust this channel's mutative energy,
and the frustration over temporary inertia can ease.
Throughout your life, you'll come to see
that the transformations you bring…to your world and others… are immensely
empowering.
~ Chetan Parkyn - Human Design: Discover the Person You Were
Born to Be.
32 Channel
of Transformation 54 From
the Spleen to the Root
You
are immensely driven and determined to succeed through applying yourself… and
finding the right people who can help you climb the career ladder.
You
sometimes sense a power greater than yourself thrusting you forward and
upward.
Your
motto is almost "I'll make it to the top… no matter what it takes!"
Material
or spiritual success matters to you and you're forever scouring your
environment to find the allies and connections that can help you get there.
This
fierce ambition is fueled by a fear of failure, injected by gate 32, and this
means there is a tendency for you to become a workaholic.
You
can be the last out of the office or putting in overtime, determined to impress
the boss or hit the latest sales or performance targets.
You're here to expand and compete to be the best in life.
The 32 – 54 is the Channel of Transformation because it can
shake up your life and all those around you once your advancement kicks in.
You have a compulsion to succeed, and your contacts book is
brimming with connections to those who can assist your ascent into a position
of power and wealth.
You are all about power meetings in the boardroom and behind
the scenes chats that can fast track your life.
But, as a result, the one question you're forever asking
yourself in business and social circles is "Can this person help get me
where I want to be?"
In this regard, you follow the senses of the Spleen and
follow your nose.
If you trust those senses, you'll be guided to the right
connections.
You bring transformation into the lives of everyone you meet
and can find yourself in great demand.
That's because people know you'll work all hours and
schmooze away to make things happen.
So make sure you engage in all situations from a well
adjusted win win perspective and not from a need of selfish gain.
When you find this balanced approach, you will discover that
everyone willingly gathers to support your causes.
~ Chetan Parkyn - Human Design: Discover the Person You Were Born to Be.
28 Channel of Struggle 38 From
the Spleen to the Root
You
are a champion of individuality, standing up and fighting for what you know to
be right, regardless of the odds and rules against you.
A
stubborn individuality means that life can seem like an eternal struggle as
you rail and campaign against the world and its unfairness.
I
would almost describe you as a rebel without a cause, except you do have a
cause: it's the empowerment of the individual.
Stubbornness
is
a rough old word that conjures up the image of a stubborn mule.
But
for you it is a gift, empowering you and others to fight for fairness and stand
your ground, no matter what the odds, or the antagonistic forces opposing you.
It's
almost as if the best thing you can hear is "It can't be done."
Nothing
will make you dig your heels in more and get you moving toward the
accomplishment of mission impossible, as you mumble to yourself:
"You
just watch me!"
Have you ever been in a gale that is so
strong it almost knocks people off their feet?
Now imagine walking into such a wall of
wind.
That is an illustration of what life can
feel like for people with the 28 - 38.
It requires poise, balance, and determination
to keep moving forward, step by steady step.
Fortunately,
you have an intuitive sense that knows what things and people are worth
fighting for.
Indeed,
you are someone who could walk into a foreign country, see the rights of its
people being denied, and want to start a resistance movement, banging your
campaign drum as loudly as you can.
There
is something of David in you, always looking to take on Goliath, and this can
lead to a tendency to fight everyone and everything.
It's
a level of inner resistance that people around you may well struggle to
understand.
"It's
always you versus the world!" they might say as you thumb your nose at
convention and rule systems.
But
you can be deaf to others' input as you attune to what sounds right for you.
This
is simply your individualistic nature.
You'll
swim upstream when everyone else is heading downstream, and you'll climb in the
window when you could have used the front door.
It's
just you demonstrating your individuality and saying:
"I
do things my way."
The difficulty is that your standards in
life might not be realistic.
Your fulfillment comes from knowing
which battles to take on and which to leave alone.
Otherwise, the indefatigable spirit of
the campaigner may well be taken advantage of, leaving you frustrated and
depleted.
In your personal life, leave your
struggles on the doorstep… don't invite them into everything you witness in the
home.
And then you can sit back, fish out the old Frank Sinatra
album, dig in your heels, and start singing "My Way!"
~ Chetan Parkyn - Human Design:
Discover the Person You
Were Born to Be.
11 Channel of
Curiosity 56 From the Mind
to the Throat
You
are forever seeking life's meaning, then yearning to express it so that others
are stimulated by your findings.
Your
insatiable curiosity never stops in its pursuit of finding something out or
obtaining new information to share with others.
In
many situations there is the inclination for you to "speak your mind"
because of the activation between the Mind and Throat, and this emerges in
phrases like "I believe what you'll find is ..."
Then
you'll be curious to see how your audience reacts and will ponder the meaning
of that reaction.
Your
excessive interest in anything and everything means you dip in and out of
life's belief systems, flitting from one stimulating idea or concept to the
next, collecting knowledge along the way.
To
those witnessing your behavior, it's as if you're chasing butterflies, trying
to keep pace with their erratic dance, tasting each flower to find flavor and
meaning.
You
devour philosophies and wisdoms, investigate concepts, and probe all kinds of
new beliefs.
You
like nothing more than seeing the results of your curiosity stimulate others.
You
will also take on all sorts of trips and travels as a means to satisfy your
curiosity, always wondering what's around the next comer, always sensing that
there is nothing quite like firsthand experience to stimulate your ideas and
beliefs anew.
The Biblical phrase "Seek, and ye
shall find" is applicable here, except that for you, the search continues
until your last breath.
It's as if your mind cannot rest until
it has come to grips with everything there is to experience in life.
For you, truth cannot be known through
having preconceived ideas.
You must seek out the experience and
sample it for yourself.
~ Chetan Parkyn - Human
Design: Discover the
Person You Were Born to Be
3/5 Profile
You
are the last person who needs reminding that life is a school of hard knocks,
filled with the exhilarating chaos on which your nature thrives, aided by a
potentially wicked sense of humor and a polished, charismatic air.
I
can almost see you adopting a James Bond air, blowing those cheeks, wiping that
brow, and saying, "Tell me about it ... but I live to fight another
day!"
Pain
and pleasure are the twinned realities of life, though I suspect you've known
more pain due to living life on the edge, leaping in with both feet, and
learning as you go.
Of
all profiles, you are the most likely to stick your fingers into an electric
socket just to find out what goes on in there!
You
are your own worst enemy, such is your insatiable inquisitiveness and
curiosity.
You
like to leave no stone unturned in your pursuit of reward and joy, and there
is an indefatigable spirit to the way you embrace life, come what may.
3/5
profiles are here for a fast track lifetime.
In
failure, trauma, and survival, you glean wisdom.
Life
will bounce you into dead ends, heartbreak, crushing disappointment, and wrong
situations while asking you to take the blessings in disguise.
It's
almost as if your role is to witness, endure, or lead from the front in order
to educate and guide others.
You are a capable and adaptable leader
in a crisis, with a wisdom that shapes a visionary element, and there is
something of the rebel in you, wanting to challenge authority and point out
what is and isn't working.
You
want to be a force for change in all areas of life.
Your
adaptability makes you expert in a storm of crisis, because you've been there,
done that, and know how the drama ends!
Your
understanding of life also arms you with a natural forgiveness.
The
fascinating mix of this profile is the third line element, which needs the juice
of life, together with the illusory yet hypnotic nature of the fifth line.
This
turns you into a charismatic, persuasive seducer, subtly reeling others into
relationships, projects, or pursuits.
But
it is a profile that is noncommittal by nature and doesn't wish to hang around
if there is not a sustainable engagement with its interest.
Nevertheless,
you are always strategizing, seeing how it can all work in your best interests,
toying with experimental and grand ideas.
If
I were in conversation with you, there would be an outgoing, engaging
eagerness about your communication style and obvious zest for life.
I
daresay you could come across as a bit of a dreamer, but doubtless there would
be a multitude of crazy anecdotes, all carried off with a self deprecating
humor concealing the pain of the time.
When
you fall back on your sharp wit, you are one of the funniest people around.
Humor
is both your medicine and your master deflector.
But
not a1l 3/5s can look on the bright side.
Life
can become too much and leave you defeated.
You
can get to the point where all you crave is a settled life.
You
are done with the trials, tribulations, and tests and want to throw in the
towel.
When
3/5 profiles feel beaten, despite their best efforts, they surrender.
But
their nature will not rest and will always seek to propel them into a fresh
adventure.
So
surrendering will only exacerbate any inner frustrations.
The
third line will never stop catapulting the 3/5 into all sorts of relationships,
projects, travels, travails, purchases, and lifestyles.
The
unconscious fifth line sometimes paddles hard to make real life match the
fantasies.
Ultimately, you are seeking the reward
for your hardship.
You are always seeking that special
someone who can bring inner peace amid the chaos.
When that person is found, commitment is
total.
In accepting chaos, you accept yourself.
Life will never be a destination but is an eternal journey.
Embrace it, find medicine in laughter,
and absorb all the consequential wisdoms that make people admire you so much.
And at the end of your days, I guarantee
you will have traveled, loved and lost, succeeded and failed, and amassed a
veritable library of personal experiences to recall and ponder.
Relationships:
It
is quite possible that 3/5 partners have no real idea of how restless they are,
particularly in a relationship.
Of
course, they will have the gift of gab and say all the right things, but as
they're stroking your face and whispering sweet nothings, keep an eye out for
the feet inching toward the exit door.
An
escape clause should be written into any love contract with a third line
element, especially when coupled with the dreamy nature of the fifth line,
which brings a strong degree of romanticism and big promises.
The
3/5 profile is forever in search of the perfect relationship and will not
compromise its ideals.
Did
I say "perfect"? What I meant to say was "purr - fect,"
These
people need to be met, and understood, on every possible level before they
give 100 percent commitment. These are highly selective individuals when
searching for a life mate.
One thing you need to appreciate is the
essential ingredient to throw into the mix with a 3/5 partner laughter.
Let life bring the dark side; let you be
the source of light.
They can be deeply emotional partners,
but the tears of laughter need to balance the tears of pain.
Grant them this much and you will come
to know and admire a true ally and arbiter and the bridge builder of an
unpredictable but exciting future.
When 3/5s feel they have met their
match, they bring the greatest level of commitment and stability to a
relationship that is possible.
Just be prepared to be dragged off in
pursuit of big dreams!
Compatibility: Your ideal
matches are with other3/5s and 6/2 profiles, but away from that synergy you
also find common ground with 3/6, 5/1, 5/2, and 6/3 profiles.
~ Chetan Parkyn - Human
Design: Discover the
Person You Were Born to Be.
What NOW?
Just
be yourself," they say.
How
many times have we heard that?
It's
often said to help ease a nervous first date, a daunting social invitation, or
the first day on a new job.
There
is always someone armed with that well-intentioned advice: "Don't worry… just
be yourself and everything will be fine!"
The
problem is this: how many of us know what being ourselves actually means?
Who
is this "true self' the private inner being that hides behind the mask it
wears for most public interactions, that real person we are when
stripped of our ego and acts of social graces aimed at winning respect,
approval, or popularity?
Psychologists
the world over would say that millions of people pass through life without ever
realizing what constitutes their true self.
It's
as though we have forgotten our unique individuality in the collective rush to
be all things to all people, to fit the picture-perfect portrayals in
magazines, television dramas, and movies.
It's
as though the naturalness and authenticity with which we were all born and which
we unleashed with unaffected abandon as children have been crushed, repressed,
or even disallowed.
Instead,
conformity and responsibility in adulthood have combined to distort or shrink
our true natures.
Millions
of us parade as someone other than our true selves without even realizing it,
adopting an "acting personality" shaped by the conditioning of our pasts
and the judgments, expectations, and rules of others.
Along
the way, we've picked up and collected traits and acceptable responses that are
deemed the "norm," so there's always a tendency to act as we believe
we should act, or how we've been trained to act, all the time
keeping our inner beings bound and gagged.
In that regard, I am reminded of a woman
who sought me out to help rediscover a lost connection to the real
person who, she said, had mysteriously disappeared during her
marriage.
Jayne told me: “All I want is to be myself again,
act like myself again, feel like ~ myself again.
I don't want to be this person
I've created and become.
I know the real me is different,
waiting to get out and be braver, less afraid of being
hurt, less worried about the judgments of others, less afraid
of taking on the world, desperate to laugh and dance
again.
She's in there. I know she
is.
But I've no idea where to look
anymore.
I need to be reminded of the
me that has become lost.”
Like Jayne, most of us adopt a persona a
word that originates from the Greek for "mask."
But what really matters is the authentic
person behind the mask, that we are "seen" and recognized for who we
truly are.
In
writing this book I hope to bring you back home to the essence and safe harbor
of your inner being, reuniting you with the person you were born to be and the
life you were meant to live.
That's
why this is not a self help book but
a self reminder, directing you to rediscover
the essence and uniqueness of the real you.
What
I'm introducing is a one of its kind system and self awareness tool called
Human Design, a system where science meets spirituality, a system that intends
you to be loved, accepted, and understood for WHO you are.
Which
is why it asks one question at the outset: "Are you living your Human
Design?"
This
system is built on the wisdom that the acceptance and embracing of your true nature
are the essence of finding personal happiness, fulfillment, and freedom, which,
in turn, can lead to finding and creating healthier relationships.
This
book is the culmination of fifteen years in the field of Human Design.
I
have immersed myself in its truths, giving one on one readings and holding
group seminars, and it has been a long held wish of mine to share its prescient insights with a much wider audience because of the
quiet revolutions it kick starts.
I
have lost count of the people who have walked through the front door of this
system and emerged through the back exit renewed and invigorated.
Once
its truths become apparent, it induces an awakening that is both empowering and
transformative.
It
provides concrete information for you to act on by altering the way you view
yourself and approach interactions with others.
In
the words of educator Stedman Graham: "When you have a sense of who you
are and a vision of where you're going in life, you then have the basis of
reaching out to the world, and going after your dreams for a better life."
Once
you apply this system's knowledge to your life, the possibilities are endless.
But
knowledge is not the only qualification I bring to the table.
Experience
has also been my teacher, and I personally have Human Design to thank for
bringing me back "home" and changing my life a life that was
seemingly going nowhere back in 1975.
I
was sure the perfect storm was going to consume our hundred foot motor yacht.
There
almost seemed a surreal lull between the heaving rolls of the forty foot swell
as we were driven across the Atlantic Ocean, a lull between life and death.
I
remember the chill, the pitch darkness, and the freezing spray of Atlantic
water as this hurricane storm suddenly struck two days out of Bermuda.
I
was at the wheel, between Nassau and Malta, when the mother of all waves hit
and the boat was knocked sideways. I gripped the wheel for dear life, convinced
we were capsizing and that death was imminent.
Then,
with agonizing slowness, the boat righted herself.
It
was a terrifying experience.
This
journey through the hurricane lasted for nine days and nights.
I
remember tying myself onto a bunk with ropes, wedged between two wooden
drawers, and disappearing into a place beyond prayer.
Two
days after nearly capsizing, as the storm still raged, it was my birthday always
a time of review and reflection.
I
took a break in the gray light of day and hunkered down in one of the
speedboats tied to the top deck to smoke a rare cigarette by way of meager
celebration.
As
I did so, everything inside me went quiet, the storm around me seemed to mute,
and I had a sudden realization of how miraculous our escape had been.
I
thought to myself, "Surely there's more to my life than this!"
I
had dropped out of school in England, traveled the world for two years, and
then completed an apprenticeship before earning a mechanical engineering
degree at university.
After
taking one or two small jobs in Europe, I'd ended up repairing and delivering
luxury motor yachts around the world.
But
after we'd arrived in Malta and I'd thanked the gods for my survival, I packed
it all in and retreated to the Shetland Islands, to the north of Scotland, to
take stock of my life.
All
I knew was that I needed to get away. I started asking that "Who am
I?" question, and don't mind admitting that such introspection led to a
pretty dark time.
The
remoteness of my croft house on a hilltop in the middle of nowhere was almost a
perfect analogy for the personal wilderness in which I'd lost my sense of self.
During
those eighteen months in the Shetlands, my dad, Roderick Parkyn, passed away.
Another
rope tethering my stability started to fray.
Then,
one night, sitting in the candlelit gloom of the croft, a week after scattering
his ashes on his favorite sea shore in Scotland, I felt this unmistakable
spirit enter the room.
Those
who have known grief and have felt another's spirit will know what I'm talking about.
It
was a powerful experience and one that released me from my isolation.
In
a quiet but reassuring voice within I heard him telling me, "It's all right.
You can go now."
A
couple of days later, I was sitting on the front doorstep, flipping through Exchange
&Mart, when with some synchronicity, this ad jumped out and
called to me: "Free Trip to Nepal for Diesel Mechanic.
"
Propelled by Dad's reassurance, I applied and successfully landed the job-as both
mechanic and driver for the trip to Nepal.
This
was the start of an exhilarating journey of self-discovery.
I soon found myself driving a Magic Bus
on the hippie trail to India, a place that ultimately became my home for five
of the next eleven years.
In 1979 I was introduced to the ashram
of Osho, an enlightened master who at the time was known as Bhagwan Shree
Rajneesh.
Being in his company is another story
for another time. For now, let me just say that he continues to touch my heart
very deeply.
One
guidance that Osho offered was that if people had really personal questions about
themselves, they should visita "shadow reader" in Bombay (now Mumbai).
Of
course, I had to do it. This remarkable man met me, smiling, at the door of his
apartment.
He
was clean shaven, in his late thirties, wearing a billowing shirt and trousers,
and there was a bright twinkle in his eye.
In
a parking area below his apartment, his son proceeded to measure the length of
my shadow, cast onto the ground by the sun.
Back
upstairs, the shadow reader did some calculations, rolled his chair along a huge
bookshelf, pulled out one of many identical looking volumes, turned to a page,
and started reading in Sanskrit, a classical language of India.
Among
many things, he predicted that my personal awakening would happen later in life.
I
would be introduced to a system, would master it and then teach it.
"System?
What system? What is he talking about?" I thought.
His
advice was that I should experiment with reading for people to learn the skills
of interaction while imparting personal and important information relevant to
their lives.
One
week later… I meta psychic palmist who gave me a fast track introduction on
how to read hands and faces.
And
so it was that after some practice-makes perfect I began to read palms.
It
came naturally to me and I loved it.
My
travels took me to America, Switzerland, Brazil, Holland, Germany, and Japan
before I settled in Hawaii for the next nine years, reading the stories
contained within people's hands.
Then,
in 1993, I heard that a woman friend was organizing classes for a man called Ra
Uru Hu, who was introducing a system to America called Human Design.
I
was sent a curious looking chart that was supposed to represent my life's
design, and it dawned on me that this was the very system the shadow reader had
talked about.
Its
origins were intriguing. Ra, a Canadian previously known as Alan Krakower, had
been a born cynic who had worked as a newspaper advertising salesman and
filmmaker but had gone through a series of major disappointments, which had led
to his flying to Europe and catching a bus to Spain.
A
casual remark by a fellow passenger had directed him to the island of Ibiza.
There,
an event took place that changed his world.
On
the evening of January 4,1987, he was returning home on foot with his dog, Barley
Baker, when he saw a light shining from inside his remote cottage.
He
knew perfectly well that the lamp had no oil in it, so he wondered what was
going on.
As
man and dog entered the property, Barley started to growl, then fell prone to the
floor.
Ra
himself described feeling some kind of internal explosion.
Within
moments, he was standing in a pool of his own perspiration.
He
then heard a male "voice" insisting he get to work. He was receiving something
profound from the Universe.
Call
it channeling. Call it inspiration. Call it what you will.
But
he started writing and sketching and continued for eight days and nights.
From
those writings, Human Design came into being.
As
surreal as that story may sound, its inescapable truth can be witnessed in
this book, for these are the teachings that Ra brought into the world, a gift
from the Universe.
It
is a system that simply works.
For
the next seven years I traveled regularly from Maui to attend classes with Ra…
…
and in the same way that I had learned to read palms, I taught myself to read
Human Design life charts.
I
started giving readings to friends and clients and began to see that the
information was both meaningful and empowering.
After
four years, it was time to articulate all I had learned to a wider audience and
I started teaching classes about the system.
One
of the people who came to these classes had a profound impact on me, and it
felt as if she was opening a whole new magical doorway.
Carola
was a spiritual astrologer and counselor, and she could see in her own way how
clearly we were connected.
Ultimately,
she invited me to move to be with her in California and we married.
She
started using Human Design in her counseling practice and also noticed how it
assisted clients to move through certain issues and find clarity about who
they were as individuals.
I,
too, was well aware of the empowering impact the system could have on people.
For
many people, it truly was the difference between being lost and then feeling
found, granting them permission to be themselves once more.
Human Design isn't a guarantee for happiness, nor will it remove the
challenges and pain of normal life.
But
I've seen how it can change lives. It changed mine. Now I intend it to change
yours.
Most
of us, at some point, have become frustrated with our lot and whispered self searching
questions such as "Who am I?"
"What
am I doing with my life?"
"What
is my purpose?"
It
seems more and more people are engaged in an endless search these days searching
for the perfect career, perfect partner, and perfect life.
The very word searching means looking
for something that is lost, lacking, or missing and we fall into the trap of
believing that all the answers lie outside ourselves.
Yet
the answers already lie on the inside.
Those
answers are detailed in a design of which the Universe is the architect, a
design of the person you were programmed to be, your Human Design.
It
is a document that represents your blue print for life a blueprint of your
personality.
Once
you've become acquainted with this information, you will know whether the life
you're living fits with your design.
This
is not some New Age concept; its accuracy is inescapable and timeless.
It
is not a philosophy or a belief; it is an actuality rooted in science that
speaks its own power.
Nor
does it require the attraction or manifestation of wishes or desires.
There
is no asking, visualizing, or positive thinking required, because its truth
already exists within us.
When
I assert that truth, I'm not making some fashionable statement of rhetoric…
I
quite literally mean the truth is within like a set of tools within a boxed
set, waiting to be picked up and used to carve out a niche and purpose in life.
Once
reacquainted with your "design for life," you will start to feel the
ripples across all areas of your existence:
In relationships and friendships, it determines
the dynamics between people, allowing you to see where there is synergy,
conflict, or nothing in common.
In the family and at home, it explains differences between
siblings and highlights the practical and emotional interactions between parent
and child, husband and wife.
In the workplace, it illustrates to employers or
clients the different natural abilities within each person a vital tool for
improving collective productivity.
In the classroom, it shows
teachers the capabilities of each pupil and how to bring out the best in each
child.
On the social scene, it makes you
aware of the magnetisms at play and why you are drawn to certain people and
repelled by others.
Relationships
with yourself, your partner, friends, parents, siblings, colleagues, and
bosses are all impacted by the power of this system.
And
through it we can learn to understand one another on a much deeper level, thus
becoming more effective and empathetic parents, friends, lovers, and
colleagues.
It
is the most logical, freshest, and clearest insight into the self that there could
ever be.
I
can confidently say that you won't have seen anything like it before, so
prepare for an intimate odyssey whose final destination is a true understanding
of the person you were designed to be.
Prepare to meet yourself.
Prepare to meet the real you.
Chetan Parkyn San Marcos,
CA May 2010
Samuel Zink
204 9th Ave. S.
Nampa, ID 83651
Cell: 208.859.7065
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