"Follow
Your Gut."
This is your strategy if the Sacral is
defined and the Emotions are undefined.
Your
correct decision making process is about "following your gut" and
trusting it.
Am
I seriously telling you that your best decisions in life will stem from that
sensation in the lower belly?
Yes,
I am. Indeed, you were born with a natural inclination to follow the gut, but
this was quickly drummed out of you by…
…
well meaning parents and teachers who provided the conditioning to use the
Mind instead.
The
most important thing for anyone with Sacral Authority to appreciate is that
this inner guidance system is only ever effective when in response.
It
is not proactive; it is responsive.
Thus,
your authority is designed to wait until there is a clear response that speaks
from the lower belly with an "uh-huh" for "yes" and
"uh-uh" for "no," or that sensation of being drawn toward
or repelled by something.
If
there is no response, this in itself implies a lack of interest at the time.
This
authority needs to be applied to everything in life.
It
is not healthy for you to commit to, or engage in, anything without first waiting
and then receiving a gut response in agreement.
You've
got to be careful not to be tempted into making decisions just because of
conditioning or the people around you.
An
emotional friend with a contagious excitement could make an idea sound like the
best thing since sliced bread;
an
iron willed colleague could make a persuasive argument to commit your vast
life force energy to an important project.
At
such times, your authority demands that you sit and wait for your gut response
to make its voice known.
Because,
as we already know, once you commit, there is no stopping you being carried
onward by the Sacral's relentless momentum.
Learning
to get out of the head and into the gut is how you'll learn to make wiser
decisions.
Many
people with a defined Sacral struggle to differentiate between gut response and
emotional reaction.
A
response is patient, relaxed, and measured, whereas a reaction is an
unconscious reflex and hasty.
With
practice, you'll learn to notice the difference and hone this authoritative
skill within you.
With
that in mind, I will now give you something to ponder.
Consider
a time in your life when you made an important decision that turned out to be
one you regretted, be that a decision to get married or let someone go, sell
your house or buy a car, move to another country or move down the street.
Now
recall how you made that decision.
Were
you over… analyzing and thinking too much?
Did
the influence of another person convince you in some way?
Were
you feeling obliged to commit?
Rewind
and review it all.
Look
at what unfolded when you made that poor decision.
Now
consider an important decision where everything turned out favorably and you
felt an inner harmony.
How
did you make that decision?
Did
you, perhaps, wait, trust your gut, and then go for it?
Your golden key to making correct and
consistently better decisions lies in identifying the answers to these
questions.
One Important Note: When you have
both the Spleen and Sacral defined, your gut response becomes greatly enhanced
by the Spleen senses.
This means that your gut is fast tracked
into an instantaneous split second response.
~
Chetan Parkyn - Human Design: Discover the Person You Were Born to Be
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