"Recognition
and Inclusion"
A
Projector has an undefined Sacral, and none of the motor centers has an active
connection to the Throat.
·
Waiting
in the wings.
·
Waiting
for the spotlight.
·
Waiting
to be invited.
This
is the essence of a Projector's life -yearning to be included and for their
contributions and abilities to be recognized.
Then,
when working from a position of appreciation, they are an assured performer,
contributor, director, organizer, manager, guide, visionary, and conductor of
affairs.
If
you are a Projector, there is no doubt you have abilities and gifts in your own
right, but your true nature requires them to be recognized first if you
are to shine, and this awareness is essential for your personal fulfillment.
I'll
let you know that I'm among the estimated 21 percent of the world's population
that make up this type.
Whereas
the three previous types are self-driven people, a Projector can often be an
observer, waiting to be asked for his or her involvement.
So
I can empathize with the feeling that it's sometimes a struggle to be
"seen," understood, or valued for all you offer before getting the
chance to act and contribute.
There is no life force energy generating
within you and no motor center connected to the Throat providing any
manifesting drive.
There is a chilled, easygoing nature
about you, something that can appear lightweight yet assured, firm but fair.
When
you walk into a room, the first impression is that you seem keen to connect with
everybody, wanting to plug into others, yearning and sometimes struggling for recognition.
Be
watchful that such enthusiasm doesn't translate into trying too hard.
Being
noticed is intrinsic to who you are, but only when it arises naturally.
You
have nothing to worry about, either.
It's
a natural law that people will find themselves being drawn to your innate
"projection field."
What
they are being drawn toward are specific qualities within your centers, not to
mention your serene, all knowing calm.
You
are potentially an ideal networker who can link up that person with this person
and match make to your heart's content.
Likewise,
you can also hide out, not wishing to engage.
I
often tease Projectors that it's important to have a comfortable arm chair to
fall into without guilt or shame when nothing is happening.
You
must learn to enjoy the lulls in life and embrace the part of your nature that makes
you more spectator than chief player.
You
are born guides and managers and make ideal leaders, organizers, coaches, and
administrators, overseeing everything.
You
come into your own when steering, shaping, and driving the people and energy around
you.
The
truth is that some people don't know how to use their energy without your
objective assistance.
This
doesn't mean you can't get drawn into the thick of the action yourself, but for
that action to be fulfilling you first require recognition in the form of an
invitation.
This
is the chief component in your nature.
It's
important that you first receive recognition if you are to be effective.
Then,
and only then, can you walk into your arena to quiet applause and obvious
admiration.
Recognition
and invitation light up your being, and it is important for non-Projectors to
understand this.
What,
precisely, constitutes an invitation?
Well,
it can range from a gold embossed card with an RSVP instruction to an
invitation cloaked as a question, an aside, or a glance.
It
can even be an inner sense that you are being drawn toward something, like
having a calling.
It
is anyone or anything seeking your involvement while genuinely recognizing your
qualities.
This doesn't mean that you should fall
prey to overt flattery and sycophancy.
An invitation will not resonate if
someone recognizes your "tremendous ability to lead" when in actual
fact you've no aptitude for that role at all.
The recognition needs to be authentic
and respect your worth. It is not about ego but about appreciation.
Your true nature absolutely requires
this.
*Take Rolling Stones Projector Mick
Jagger.
He'll wait in
the wings, relaxing in his dressing-room armchair, waiting for the scene
to be set and the tempo to build.
This is when he gets his invitation
to go center stage, where the recognition of his talents
resonates with him.
Without that recognition-invitation
process, it
could be argued, he "can't get no
satisfaction."
With it, he'll entertain
a sell-out audience for ninety minutes.
You could argue that no one is more
energetic than Mick Jagger, so how can he possibly be a Projector?
But what he's actually doing is riding the
energy of his band mates and fans.
He's utilizing a conditioning
influence of his environment, allowing the energy of others to flood his
undefined centers, triggering him.
This is what Projectors do -they
tap into, ride, and guide the energy of others ... then flake out
after short bursts.
Projectors need to be careful about how
much borrowed energy they run through their system.
Fatigue and exhaustion are your Achilles'
heel.
In a high-pressured, high-energy
environment in which you adopt the "go, go, go" of everyone else,
there's a danger you'll blow an internal fuse.
Be wary of trying to keep up with
Manifestors, Generators, and Manifesting Generators and bowing to the
commitments of others; otherwise, you'll exhaust yourself to the point of near collapse.
Be open to taking breaks and having
siestas and catnaps.
Remember where your armchair is!
These energetic limitations require
attention.
One mistake I made as a Projector was to
over ride my inner resistance and convince myself to do things or join in with others,
pretending to be naturally that way inclined.
I sought to be one of the crowd and
forced myselfto jump into the fray.
Then, when I was snubbed, unappreciated,
misunderstood, but still embroiled in obligation, I'd wonder why.
Nowadays, I'll await the recognition-invitation
process.
In this respect, we Projectors are
always hanging around waiting for our cue.
But it makes a world of difference to
how comfortable I am in certain surroundings.
It must boil down to honoring a sense of
belonging.
As
a Projector, you'll be able to identify with an inner pressure to be recognized
for your gifts and abilities.
You
can quickly develop a sense of gloom or despair when you appear to be passed over
or ignored.
You'll
often ask yourself: "What do I need to do to get noticed?" or
"Why do I keep getting overlooked?
"Some
of you can travel through life frustrated by a sense of untapped potential, but
if you learn patience and the humility to concede that not everything requires
your input, the frustration can ease.
The
good news is that Human Design readings impact Projectors immediately because a
reading recognizes their true nature and they feel celebrated!
As
a Projector in the workplace, you may feel overshadowed by the achievements of
more energetic types.
But
if I were the CEO of a company, I would want my Projectors heading up the
planning and management departments because, as natural guides and without the
Sacral's impetus, they have a good view of how the whirlwind energy of others
is best harnessed.
Projectors
are also versatile because, not being tied to the Sacral, they can change speed
and focus on a whim.
In
relationships, Projectors cannot abide being taken for granted or being told
how to act.
Recognition
and invitation are vital here.
As
a partner, you like to be recognized for your worth and invited to do things,
even when it comes to household chores!
Your
partners also need to honor your need for rest and replenishment.
You
might well be accused of being lightweight and lazy, but you were not born with
natural reserves of energy.
The
benefit for you is that you can help steer your partner's energy and support him
or her in becoming a power for good.
You're
expert at guiding a relationship and suggesting ways to improve and enhance
relations.
You
provide the balanced perspective that can see the forest through the trees.
Projectors
bring great variety and freshness into a relationship… they are the natural
connectors and organizers.
The first thing you'll notice about Projector
children is that they're not necessarily energetic.
Don't think of them as lazy or lethargic.
You'll also notice them doing things, from
activities to gestures, "just to get noticed."
See through the act and read its subtext
-they need recognition.
It's important to honor their every
attribute, skill, and good turn however small.
There is nothing more upsetting to
Projector children than not being recognized or earning parental pride.
The
need for recognition can sometimes play itself out as neediness, too, as it can
in adult relationships.
No
one is being clingy they just want to have their love, feelings, and position
recognized.
Very
few Projectors wish to walk through life alone because they need someone
else's energy to tap into to fuel and nurture them.
They
can function but cannot thrive in isolation.
As a Projector, what you achieve in life
tends to depend on being drawn into the right company and right environment.
When your gifts and abilities are truly recognized,
you'll feel empowered.
The difference between being recognized
and not recognized is day and night to you and essential to your sense of
well-being and satisfaction.
Recognition means everything-and brings
out your best.
~
Chetan Parkyn - Human Design: Discover the Person You Were Born to Be.
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