Relationships undergo many stages

When its new... both lovers feel an excitement... a flow of romance... lots of loving pleasure moments... it all feels awesome... heavenly...

Then few days, months or years later... this excitement fades away... one partner deals with it patiently... he/she still keeps on loving... caring with the same intensity and yes feeling hurt because of cold responses from the other partner... 

Days passes... then comes a stage where the one who was putting in the effort... starts to give up... because his/ her efforts seems useless... the love and care seems to get lost somewhere...

Then finally it may comes to the verge of breaking up... not because of misunderstanding but because of ignorance… of each other’s feelings...

Relationship is NOT about caring in the beginning but loving each other more and more with each passing day... 

It is NOT about never fighting… but with how much less time you both take to forget the fighting love back...

Both need to put in effort... because a relationship is for two people... NOT one sided sacrifice... both need to show they love each other and are important in their lives...

Do not lose someone who loves you… just because of other priorities in life... because if you will not have your love beside you... success and other happiness won't matter much... 

Always hold that hand tightly who loves you with all his/her heart and never let go in any case, because later in life you may realize your mistake but at that time he/she may not be their waiting for you !

Does this sound correct to YOU?  see contrast:  http://aneaglessight.blogspot.com/2013/01/blending-into-oneness.html

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