I
have only one clear thing to say to you: "Stick to your path. Follow your
heart."
You
are a rare individual, being the only fixed profile among the twelve.
This
means you have one theme in life and an extremely precise and particular way of
living -and it's all about a heart's desire guiding you toward your destiny.
This
is because you have what is called a "fixed fate vibration": one
path, one purpose, one perspective, meaning that your true nature must stick to
a rigid course, as plotted by the Universe, without deviating and without
exception.
In some ways, this is a loner's profile,
mainly because your immovable
and
inflexible nature makes you hard to understand.
Your
foundations are built by one determining factor the fate you have been handed
in life.
And
whatever that might be, you'll throw your heart into pursuing it.
Just
as there are sixty-four genetic codons to the human makeup, there are
sixty-four gates in the Human Design system.
Your
"fixed fate" is determined by just one of them.
This
one aspect presets the tone and context of all your interactions.
You
hold true to a particular and vital aspect of the human psyche and that's it.
For
example, I knew a male pensioner with the4/1 profile. His one fixed fate from
the sixty-four gates was Stimulation.
As
such, stimulation became the fixed theme to his life.
He
drove the most impressive car, owned properties around the world but was too
busy to visit them, had endured several medical surgeries, had just been
bankrupted after one business turned sour, and yet gambled and drank with the best
of them, regaling everyone with outrageous stories of adventure.
No
one and nothing could stop his endless search for stimulation.
He
was true to his profile.
So
how do you determine your fixed fate?
Look
at the conscious unconscious column of information in your life chart, and
find the top number in black (where the conscious fourth line is attached).
That
is the gate number relating to your fixed fate.
Turn
back to chapter 6 and read its meaning.
This
is your immovable theme in life.
You
can expound genius in your particular expression but can suffer when you're not
appreciated by a world with a short attention span.
Yet
it is so important that you are not deflected from your course in life.
I
cannot overstate the importance of this truth, because if a rule system, job
requirement, or family pressure diverts you from a heartfelt purpose, your
life will fall to pieces as you lose connection with any sense of purpose.
The
first-line foundations will fall away and the fourth line heart will break.
You
are not here to live in the styles that everyone else takes for granted; your
agenda is unique and you need to be aware of those who support you to live that
truth, and those who, for one reason or another, are intimidated by your
steadfast pursuit and do not understand its importance to your sense of balance
and well being.
I
admire anyone with a 4/1 profile because you have a tough agenda that is challenging
at every turn.
You
see everyone else being flexible and possibly random, and when you try to
follow suit, you feel derailed.
So, please, I implore you to remain true
to your nature.
Thank the naysayers for sharing their opinion,
but live your life from your heart.
Put on the blinkers, become focused, and
stick to your particular path.
When you do, you become a pillar of
strength and conviction.
You are all heart, mean well, and will forever
give 100 percent.
Ultimately, once you stop struggling
against your nature's restrictions and accept your fragility, you will find
success and fulfillment by following your heart-and finding your destiny.
Relationships
with a 4/1
You
will soon discover thatyour4/1 partner can be a little fixated in one
direction.
If
4/1s' nature is embraced, and respected, they won't wish to try anything new
and won't thank you for trying to expand their horizons.
You
just have to let them be if you truly have their interests in mind.
Acceptance
means the world to 4/1s because they are so rarely understood or appreciated
for their sometimes rigid approach.
They
feel as though they are constantly trying to protect their heart, when all they
want to do is sing its song.
They
will feel a lot of pressure to change and will need you to embrace them for who
they are.
Once 4/1s feel free to be themselves,
they can make an amazing heartfelt connection that brings about a sense of
security.
Acknowledgment, appreciation, and
unconditional acceptance are expressions of love in themselves.
It might not be an easy relationship,
because anything that is immovable can lead to friction, but your 4/1 partner
has a big heart, and if you can cut your cloth accordingly, a warm and unique
relationship can soar in a freedom the 4/1 rarely feels.
Compatibility
Because
of your particularly unique profile, the most important thing is to honor yourself
and life process first and foremost.
You'll
find a certain degree of synergy among other 4/1s and 1/4s and will also get
along with 4/6s.
~
Chetan Parkyn - Human Design: Discover the Person You Were Born to Be
thank you! this explained a lot to me...so true. <3
ReplyDeleteAwsome reading! So connected to the original source. Thank You. J
ReplyDeleteThank you for this!
ReplyDeleteCould someone please help me understand how to find this? I’m not understanding which number this is as I don’t know what the conscious unconscious column is. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteLook at the conscious unconscious column of information in your life chart, and find the top number in black (where the conscious fourth line is attached).
That is the gate number relating to your fixed fate.
Turn back to chapter 6 and read its meaning.
when you look at your human disign chart you will see two colums. one on the right with black numbers and one on the left with red numbers. numbers are standing alongside planet simbols. you look at the colum on the right, frst simbol on the top is sun and there is also a number -.4 All fixsed fate people have 4 for the number following the dot.so you just need to find out the number in front (1-64)
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DeleteI am a 4/1 profile, cross of denial, gate 40 (loneliness) lol.
ReplyDeleteI am also a 4/1, l found the worst loneliness was when l was not there for myself.
ReplyDeleteim a 4/1 and feel like a loser lol i dont feel special.
DeleteMy charts have me as a 5/1 generator, this one is the only one that is a 4/1. Anyone know why that would be?Also, Chapter 6 of which book? Thanks:)
ReplyDeleteThis brought me to tears. Thank you for speaking straight to my soul.
ReplyDeleteThank you ! wish i could read the pleadian wisdom but the link is broken
ReplyDelete4:1 cross of provocation. learning to embrace aloneness and the fact that I trigger everyone around me has not been easy or fun. Especially as a biological female who is *supposed* to epitomize social refinement, find a partner & pop out some puppies. I’ve none of these things. The key is to not internalize other people’s reactions & commune with source energy, I suppose. Ride the wave. I’ve yet to meet after 40+ years anyone who “accepts” my nature.
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ReplyDeleteI'm a 4/1 Sacral Generator and my fixed gate is Opinions. My opinions aren't 'fixed' but my need to express them IS. The times in my life where I have felt the worst is when my opinions didn't matter or weren't heard. I'm not cruel either. I never express an opinion if it's going to harm or hurt someone.
ReplyDeleteI'm a 4/1 Emotional Generator. Juxt Cross of Assimilation.
ReplyDelete- very fixed, and very glad to be in my rebuilding phase after imploding throughout my 30s. Had to slowly, painfully shed my skin and remember myself.
Truly it has been Frustration - Apathy - Empathy, and Empathy feels really good.
So I'm curious to know some of the ways my fellow 4/1s express yourselves in the world. I'm toying with ideas for writing and starting projects, but I'm not sure which direction suits me best.
I'm not an expert on any subject, but my gift is to receive and distill big concepts into relatable content that is a balm.
Thoughts?
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